Thursday, August 7, 2008

Men vs women


Men are created to have dominion , to have work, and to have success.
Competency, efficiency and usefulness are a big thing to men.
A man's sense of self worth is defined through his ability to achieve results.

A man is project based but a woman is feeling based.
By nature, a woman values love, beauty, relationships.
A woman's life is about sharing of emotions and feelings.

A man's principle: If it ain't broken, don't touch it!
A woman's prinicple: Let's make things better!

Men are motivated and empowered when they are needed and when their expertise is required.
Women are motivated and empowered when they are loved and cherished.

Men want respect, and women want appreciation.

When encountered with a problem or tough situation, men need to retreat into their 'caves'.
Women on the other hand, need to talk and have someone to listen to their problems.

Women forgive in installments, men forgive in whole.

extracted from 'The Relationship series' sermons by Pastor Kevin Loo, founder of City Harvest Church Malaysia.


p.s. Readers, tell me how much you agree to all these statements. I actually find them all to be quite true indeed. I realize that I do have all the characteristics of a woman :)

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